SUCCESS IN THE MIDST OF STRUGGLE
An Inspirational Short Story
By Amb. Solomon Oluwatimileyin David
The harmattan wind swept across the dusty streets of Ibadan like an old friend carrying secrets. It was 5:30 a.m., and Kolawole Adebayo was already awake, sitting on the cracked concrete step outside his family’s two-room apartment in Bodija. At nineteen, he carried the weight of dreams too big for his thin shoulders.
His father had died three years earlier from a sudden heart attack, leaving behind a widow and four children. Mama sold roasted plantain by the roadside to feed them. Kola, being the eldest, had dropped out of secondary school in SS2 to support the family. He worked as an apprentice mechanic during the day and studied at night under the dim light of a kerosene lantern.
But Kola had a secret dream — he wanted to become a leader who would change lives, especially for young people trapped in the same cycle of poverty he knew too well. He had read every leadership book he could borrow from the small community library. He listened to motivational messages on his cracked phone whenever there was enough airtime. In his heart, he believed that success was possible even in the midst of struggle.
One Monday morning, after fixing a stubborn generator for a customer, Kola wiped the grease from his hands and walked to the local youth centre. A notice on the board caught his eye:
“Leadership Development Programme – Fully Sponsored
For 50 Ambitious Young People
Apply with a 500-word essay on ‘Why I Want to Lead’
Deadline: Friday"
His heart raced. This was it. This was the door he had been praying for. That night, under the flickering lantern, Kola wrote his essay with trembling hands. He poured out his soul — the pain of losing his father, watching his mother struggle, and his burning desire to build leaders so that no other child would have to drop out of school to survive.
He submitted the essay on Thursday, borrowing transport fare from a neighbour. Then he waited.
Two weeks later, a call came. “Congratulations, Kolawole Adebayo. You have been selected.”
The programme was intense. Every Saturday for six months, fifty young people from different parts of Oyo State gathered at the University of Ibadan conference hall. They were taught vision casting, emotional intelligence, public speaking, financial literacy, character development, and servant leadership. The facilitators were successful Nigerians — entrepreneurs, pastors, civil servants, and even a former state commissioner.
Kola absorbed everything like a sponge. But life did not pause for his dreams.
At home, things grew harder. Mama’s plantain business suffered when heavy rains destroyed the supply. His younger sister fell ill with malaria, and hospital bills swallowed the little savings they had. Some nights, Kola went to bed with only garri and water in his stomach. His mechanic master sometimes delayed his small allowance, claiming “business is slow.”
Yet every Saturday, Kola showed up early, neat in his only ironed shirt, notebook in hand. When others complained about the long sessions, Kola took extra notes. When group assignments were given, he volunteered to lead his team, even when members doubted his quiet voice.
One day, during a session on resilience, the lead facilitator, Dr. Funke Olatunji, shared a story of her own struggle. She had lost her parents at fifteen and hawked pure water on the streets of Lagos before gaining a scholarship. “Success is not the absence of struggle,” she said. “Success is what you become while struggling.”
Those words burned into Kola’s heart.
Midway through the programme, tragedy struck again. Their landlord increased the rent by 50%, threatening eviction. Kola’s mother cried bitterly that night. “How will we survive, my son?”
Kola did not sleep. He prayed, then made a decision. The next day, he approached his mechanic master and asked for more responsibility — and a little advance. He worked extra hours, repairing motorcycles late into the night. He also started a small side hustle: teaching basic computer skills to primary school children in his area using an old laptop a church member had donated.
Slowly, he raised enough money to pay two months’ rent. The struggle did not end, but Kola refused to let it break him.
In the leadership class, his transformation was noticeable. He spoke with more confidence. His ideas during group discussions were sharp and practical. Dr. Olatunji began to single him out for special mentorship. “You have fire in you, Kola,” she told him one evening. “But fire without discipline burns everything, including itself. Keep building your character.”
Kola took the advice seriously. He started waking up at 4:30 a.m. to read his Bible and plan his day. He kept a small journal where he wrote his goals and the lessons he learned from every failure. When he felt discouraged, he remembered his father’s last words to him: “Be the man who lifts others, even when you are still climbing.”
The final month of the programme brought the biggest test.
Each participant was required to design and present a community project that demonstrated leadership. Kola proposed “The Rising Leaders Club” — a free after-school mentorship programme for secondary school students in Bodija who were at risk of dropping out. He planned to teach them basic leadership principles, study skills, and entrepreneurship using the very lessons he was learning.
But implementing it seemed impossible. He had no money, no venue, and very little time. Many of his classmates chose easier projects — cleaning campaigns or simple health talks. Kola chose the harder path because he knew the pain of the children he wanted to help.
He started small. He begged the pastor of a nearby church for the use of their small hall every Wednesday evening. He printed simple flyers with money he saved from skipping meals. He visited five secondary schools personally, speaking to principals and students.
On the day of his project presentation, only twelve students showed up. Kola was disappointed but not defeated. He taught them with passion, sharing his own story. By the end of the first session, the children were listening with wide eyes. One boy, Tunde, whispered to his friend, “This uncle sounds like he knows our struggle.”
Word spread quietly. By the fourth week, thirty-five students were attending. Kola used his little savings to buy biscuits and pure water for them. He stayed up late preparing lessons. Sometimes he taught with an empty stomach, but the light in the children’s eyes fed his soul.
The programme graduation day arrived with fanfare. Important guests, including a state legislator and successful entrepreneurs, were present. Each participant presented their project. When it was Kola’s turn, he stood tall despite his worn shoes.
He told his story simply and honestly — the early mornings, the hunger, the rent crisis, the sleepless nights. Then he showed photos of the Rising Leaders Club. The children he had mentored were there, dressed in their best clothes, smiling proudly.
The hall was silent. Then applause erupted.
Dr. Olatunji stood up. “Kolawole Adebayo has shown us what it means to create success in the midst of struggle. While others managed projects, he built lives. He did not wait to become successful before he started leading. He led while still struggling — and that is the highest form of leadership.”
Kola received the “Most Impactful Project” award and a small grant of ₦250,000 to expand his club.
But the real success was deeper.
Six months after graduation, the Rising Leaders Club had grown to over one hundred students. Kola had secured small sponsorships from local businesses. Two of his first students passed their WAEC exams with flying colours and gained admission into polytechnics. Mama’s business had also improved because Kola helped her reorganize it using the financial lessons he learned.
One evening, as Kola sat with his mother on the same cracked step where his journey began, she held his hand and said, “My son, you have become the leader your father prayed you would be.”
Kola smiled, tears in his eyes. “Mama, I am still struggling. But now I understand — success is not when the struggle ends. Success is who we become while we are still in the middle of it.”
Years later, Ambassador Kolawole Adebayo would stand before thousands of young people across Nigeria, sharing this same story. He would tell them:
“Do not wait for perfect conditions to start leading. Do not wait until you are rich, comfortable, or famous. Start now — in the midst of your struggle. Because the world does not need perfect leaders. It needs leaders who have been refined by struggle and who refuse to let their circumstances define their destiny.”
And every time he spoke, somewhere in the audience, another young person with big dreams and empty pockets would feel a fire kindled in their heart.
Because true success is never born in comfort.
It is forged in the fire of struggle — by those brave enough to keep building, keep serving, and keep rising.
The End
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